Always Remember These Two Things When Courting a Woman

By Mark Tay

Are you interested in a woman who only treated you as a friend? You must be wondering if there are things you can do to turn things around. Here are two things you need to know. That is: Expectations and Escalation.

1) Escalation.

When you are in a situation, don't make a big fuss about it. Don't place all your eggs in a basket, you will lose it all when things start to go wrong. So just do what you're supposed to do and don't keep thinking of how the outcome will be like because whatever happens you have to keep cool. Being able to keep cool will allow you to get over that first girl fast and move on to another.

However, if you are not cool with it, you will keep going back to that one girl. Seriously speaking, it is a waste of time.

Also, many guys do not know when it is time to go in for the kiss. When guys go for the kiss the first time, the girl will usually resist and back off a little. Then these guys will think that she's not ready and stop doing everything altogether. The thing guys should do is persistent and at the same time stay cool. You don't want to seem as a creep who goes in for the kiss whenever you want.

You must know when is the right moment to make things go your way. If you are friends with a woman you are interested in, then it is very easy to get her to the next level, but at the same time it is also very easy to get rejected.

A note for guys: When she rejects you, things will never be the same again. Both of you will feel awkward when you're near or with each other. So don't screw the thing up.

2) Expectations

Have you ever heard of a phrase? "Things happen when you least expect it?" Yes, it applies here. All you have to do is not expect anything. Guys want to impress the one they love, all the time. They will repeat "don't screw this up" many times in their head. But do you notice things always go against your will? The more you try not to screw it up, the more it tends to happen.

What you should be doing is just relax and not be a guy who needs to seek her approval. You should be doing things the other way round, her seeking your approval. If you are the one always doing things with her wishes then you should stop it as all respect for you is gone. She is just treating you like her dog. Man up and make your stand clear, she's not the only thing your world has.

This will make your expectations and her expectations clear.