By Vlad Karl
No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
Monday, April 12, 2010
How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You part 2
By Vlad Karl
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You part 1
By Vlad Karl
Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let her fall in love gradually. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let her fall in love gradually. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
Monday, April 5, 2010
Always Remember These Two Things When Courting a Woman
By Mark Tay
Are you interested in a woman who only treated you as a friend? You must be wondering if there are things you can do to turn things around. Here are two things you need to know. That is: Expectations and Escalation.
1) Escalation.
When you are in a situation, don't make a big fuss about it. Don't place all your eggs in a basket, you will lose it all when things start to go wrong. So just do what you're supposed to do and don't keep thinking of how the outcome will be like because whatever happens you have to keep cool. Being able to keep cool will allow you to get over that first girl fast and move on to another.
However, if you are not cool with it, you will keep going back to that one girl. Seriously speaking, it is a waste of time.
Also, many guys do not know when it is time to go in for the kiss. When guys go for the kiss the first time, the girl will usually resist and back off a little. Then these guys will think that she's not ready and stop doing everything altogether. The thing guys should do is persistent and at the same time stay cool. You don't want to seem as a creep who goes in for the kiss whenever you want.
You must know when is the right moment to make things go your way. If you are friends with a woman you are interested in, then it is very easy to get her to the next level, but at the same time it is also very easy to get rejected.
A note for guys: When she rejects you, things will never be the same again. Both of you will feel awkward when you're near or with each other. So don't screw the thing up.
2) Expectations
Have you ever heard of a phrase? "Things happen when you least expect it?" Yes, it applies here. All you have to do is not expect anything. Guys want to impress the one they love, all the time. They will repeat "don't screw this up" many times in their head. But do you notice things always go against your will? The more you try not to screw it up, the more it tends to happen.
What you should be doing is just relax and not be a guy who needs to seek her approval. You should be doing things the other way round, her seeking your approval. If you are the one always doing things with her wishes then you should stop it as all respect for you is gone. She is just treating you like her dog. Man up and make your stand clear, she's not the only thing your world has.
This will make your expectations and her expectations clear.
Are you interested in a woman who only treated you as a friend? You must be wondering if there are things you can do to turn things around. Here are two things you need to know. That is: Expectations and Escalation.
1) Escalation.
When you are in a situation, don't make a big fuss about it. Don't place all your eggs in a basket, you will lose it all when things start to go wrong. So just do what you're supposed to do and don't keep thinking of how the outcome will be like because whatever happens you have to keep cool. Being able to keep cool will allow you to get over that first girl fast and move on to another.
However, if you are not cool with it, you will keep going back to that one girl. Seriously speaking, it is a waste of time.
Also, many guys do not know when it is time to go in for the kiss. When guys go for the kiss the first time, the girl will usually resist and back off a little. Then these guys will think that she's not ready and stop doing everything altogether. The thing guys should do is persistent and at the same time stay cool. You don't want to seem as a creep who goes in for the kiss whenever you want.
You must know when is the right moment to make things go your way. If you are friends with a woman you are interested in, then it is very easy to get her to the next level, but at the same time it is also very easy to get rejected.
A note for guys: When she rejects you, things will never be the same again. Both of you will feel awkward when you're near or with each other. So don't screw the thing up.
2) Expectations
Have you ever heard of a phrase? "Things happen when you least expect it?" Yes, it applies here. All you have to do is not expect anything. Guys want to impress the one they love, all the time. They will repeat "don't screw this up" many times in their head. But do you notice things always go against your will? The more you try not to screw it up, the more it tends to happen.
What you should be doing is just relax and not be a guy who needs to seek her approval. You should be doing things the other way round, her seeking your approval. If you are the one always doing things with her wishes then you should stop it as all respect for you is gone. She is just treating you like her dog. Man up and make your stand clear, she's not the only thing your world has.
This will make your expectations and her expectations clear.
Friday, April 2, 2010
5 steps to making fights with your partner work for, not against, you.
1. Consider your most recent argument. At what point did you sense yourself getting "hooked"—caught up in emotions that might have felt very familiar? What was the situation? What did your partner say or do that sent you over the edge?
2. Now try to remember the first argument you had in this relationship. (Because it was a milestone, most couples can remember. If you can't, pick any early argument. And if you're one of those couples who "never" argue, then work with your first disappointment.) Without focusing on the surface issues, look for the pattern. Do you see any similarities in the feelings that came up?
3. Realize that your recurrent argument is telling you something about your deep past. It may take a while to tap into this "something." Be patient. Stay with the feelings. Write in your journal. Talk to close friends or family members. Look at old photographs. Before going to bed at night, wish for a revealing dream.
4. When you've discovered your story beneath the story, discuss it with your partner. Then listen to his story. Have compassion for each other. You both seek relief from old hurts. You both desire love and understanding.
5. The next time an argument begins, try to deal with the core issue. The more you practice, the easier it gets. As you heal from the past, there's less fuel for the fire, and the rewards come more and more quickly.
2. Now try to remember the first argument you had in this relationship. (Because it was a milestone, most couples can remember. If you can't, pick any early argument. And if you're one of those couples who "never" argue, then work with your first disappointment.) Without focusing on the surface issues, look for the pattern. Do you see any similarities in the feelings that came up?
3. Realize that your recurrent argument is telling you something about your deep past. It may take a while to tap into this "something." Be patient. Stay with the feelings. Write in your journal. Talk to close friends or family members. Look at old photographs. Before going to bed at night, wish for a revealing dream.
4. When you've discovered your story beneath the story, discuss it with your partner. Then listen to his story. Have compassion for each other. You both seek relief from old hurts. You both desire love and understanding.
5. The next time an argument begins, try to deal with the core issue. The more you practice, the easier it gets. As you heal from the past, there's less fuel for the fire, and the rewards come more and more quickly.
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