Some might agree others might not, but I suggest just go over these tips and who knows you might learn a thing or two.
1. Make an Impression
Making an impression means not showing your interested the first time you meet the person. Most of the time when a guy meets a gal of his dreams, they immediately give in and show signs of affection. Sometimes it pays to hold back what you are feeling and be a little bit mysterious.
2. Presence
Presence! Presence! Presence! I can’t emphasize it more. Just make sure that the girl you’re courting knows that you’re always there for her. You can do this by: (a) giving her a ride home, (b) talking to her at least once a day, the more you talk the better your chances are, (c) text her, just make sure that you ask open ended questions, those that are not answerable by simply a yes, no, alrighty , or K.
3. Listen Well and Listen Good
This is really important. It is by listening that you’ll get the juiciest information you’ll ever need. It is where you’ll learn her likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, what makes her happy or sad, and it is by knowing these miniscule details that your courting becomes a success. Most of us overlook this and fall short of expectation.
4. Be Creative
Be creative in your own little way. For example if all of her suitors are bringing her expensive gifts, dozens of flowers and imported chocolates, offer her something different like a simple choc nut plus your time, effort, thoughtfulness and a whole lot more.
5. Be Friendly, Befriend Everybody
When you’re courting someone, you’re not only courting one person you should also consider everybody around her like her friends, officemates, family members and especially her best friend. These people are important to her. They have great influence over her. By being close to them and letting them know more about you, you can get the assurance that will nod in your favor.
6. Make her Laugh
Humor “breaks the ice” and can help you get to know each other more easily. In making her laugh, proceed with caution. Don’t tell jokes that are offensive or engage in topics that can make her feel offended.
7. Never say “Can I court you?” This is a big no-no. It takes away the mystery and the thrill of courtship. You’ll immediately lose 50% of your chances. Look here’s the thing, if a girl likes you it’s fine and she might say “yes”, but what if she doesn’t that’s when you lose your chances.
8. Be Honest and Sincere
Be honest to yourself don’t be someone you are not, just be yourself. Next is being sincere with your intentions. By combining these two qualities you’ll never go wrong especially when you’re already proposing.
9. Timing is Everything
During courting, knowing when to do things is very critical. It is very important, from a simple knowing when to throw a joke to a more difficult planning when to propose. Knowing when the time is right is a personal decision. This is done after assessing yourself and the girl you’re courting. You’ll surely know it if the right moment comes. You just have to trust your instincts.
10. Patience is a virtue
Being patient is one quality that is taken for granted nowadays. In courting, patience is always the name of the game, which is why the courting phase and usually stretch from weeks or even months. Take your time, there are no shortcuts. All good things come for those who wait.
There you have it. I hope you enjoyed reading.
Always live a marvelous life!
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